Posted by Dinah on February 28, 2007, at 17:35:19
In reply to Re: Why is it that my mother makes me sooo angry?, posted by Declan on February 28, 2007, at 17:16:57
With my father, I think I've drifted towards missing him and focusing more on the good times. But I think the fundamental difference is that my father and I had a sort of symbiotic mutually beneficial relationship at the core. All my adult life we sort of took care of each other. The negative stuff was on top of that.
Losing him was losing a caretaker and losing a dependent.
That sounds kind of sickish doesn't it. I don't think it really was, but it sort of sounds that way.
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