Posted by Jo U.K on February 19, 2007, at 1:47:20
In reply to I acted like an idiot, posted by Daisym on February 18, 2007, at 22:21:43
Oh my goodness, Daisy, I felt my heart pounding just reading your post. I would have reacted the same I'm sure. That sort of thing happens to me when I'm looking a bit of a state - you know, no make up and scruffy or something!
I guess it's still early days since your marriage broke up, and after all you had been with him for 25 years, it's bound to feel wierd to see him with someone else.I do feel it's over stepping the mark for him to tell you about his sex life though! Did hearing about it have a strange kind of interest for you?
I dont think you should feel bad about leaving, or try to compensate for it - after all you took what you thought was the best decision for you all at the time, so dont lose sight of that.
If I were you, I'd only leave the house dressed to the nines with full war paint on, just in case you run in to them and he introduces you! Maybe I'm just a little vain :-)
Jo
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