Posted by phook2 on October 24, 2006, at 17:52:13
Hi
I am going through a difficult situation with my wife and what ever help I can get would help. I came back from being deployed with the army for 30 months I was a reservist. I came back to my wifewho told me that she was faithful and I beleived her but then she said that she did not love me anymore. I did some looking and found out that she was ahving an affair with a married man that she worked with. I confronted her with thisand we talked about it. I really love her and out three year old son. We decided to work it out. the next day we went on a wine tour both got drunk and had a major fight. Ireally scared her during this fight this was the first time I was this mad ather ever. that night she left me and moved in with her parents. we have been married for 5 years andI love her. We talk everyday and our better friends now with our communication than when we were married.I really want to get back together and live happily ever after. I have started in counciling and medicine. She says that she cares about me and loves me but is not sure if she is in love with me. She vows to me that the affair is over because she did not realize that she could lose her job over this affair.I really want to know if you think it could work out or if any one has similar situation and how the worked out and what to do.
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