Posted by Wildflower on October 12, 2006, at 17:51:46
In reply to Re: when do you say I love you, posted by eugenia on October 12, 2006, at 9:10:02
> He is kind of physically unappealing to me, but I am thinking that I might be putting too much emphasis on that. Any experiences anyone could share?
Yes, I do. My whole life, I dated men who were physically attractive to me. This all changed about six years ago when I met my ex.
To me, he was never someone that I could get attached to but he had a very fun personality and we clicked. In fact, I remember having this same looks vs. personality conversation with some of my friends. They convinced me to get over my need for an a physically attractive man and give him a chance. They were right.
I guess what I'm trying to say is give him a chance - if you haven't already. Sometimes people can suprise you. However, if the thought of a physical relationship with him repulses you, it may be wise to reconsider your options.
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