Posted by llrrrpp on September 16, 2006, at 7:52:20
In reply to Re: my b/f don't last long in bed why, posted by Declan on September 13, 2006, at 1:23:06
Yes, well, 10 minutes is okay, it's not spectacular, but it's pretty normal for many couples. If you need longer, you might want to figure out what will help you get what you need and either start a little earlier (saving the end for the last 10 mins) or get finished a little later (haha- guys usually pass out incoherent for at least a minute or so- kinda breaks the flow a little bit, huh?).
My main advice to women who are frustrated like this is: know thyself. If you can't make it happen in solo practicing, the duet is not going to make you feel much better either. Or, rather than just making it about some "goal", try enjoying sex moment by moment, for what it is. It's hilarious. smooshie bodies and compromising positions and saying bizarre things to each other, and wierd noises you may never have heard your guy make before. people are a strange animal. get to know yourself better, go with the flow!
poster:llrrrpp
thread:685153
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/relate/20060621/msgs/686485.html