Posted by llrrrpp on June 29, 2006, at 21:27:08
In reply to My CHB Therapist, posted by curtm on June 29, 2006, at 19:59:58
> OK sorry for the riddle. CHB is Cold-Hearted Bitc*. She is my wife and I still think I love her, but I don't think she loves me. The CHB approach is all I ever seem to get.
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(((((((((((((poor curt))))))))))))))
It must hurt, since you're not cold-hearted. Can you see a counsellor together? It might help out with how she cannot express her emotions around you. It might help her realize that you really want to work on things WITH her, not just around her. And the counsellor might be able to get through to her, where she has prevented you access.
I'm so sorry you're in pain. no one deserves an abusive therapist, or wife, for that matter.
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