Posted by curtm on May 16, 2006, at 14:04:46
In reply to Re: all men are ....... » jonquiljo, posted by Joan797 on May 16, 2006, at 13:47:56
After my first divorce (I was the defendent) I found myself hateful and desensitized toward all women. I had taken out my anger and held a grudge on all of them as a feeble excuse to blame someone else for something that was my fault. I do that with many things. Only by putting them down I could be elevated to a higher level. In truth I was lowering myself even more. I knew I was doing it, but I didn't care. I was so angry at my ex and hurt. I still haven't spoken to her to this day. I have mellowed out as the years passed, and I don't see things that way anymore. Sorry to all women who read here because you were once in that group. I have since regained a lot of compassion and differentiation.
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