did you ever need to stop talking to a friend

Posted by alesta on April 11, 2006, at 15:09:28 [reposted on April 14, 2006, at 21:51:15 | original URL]

because you were on the verge of falling in love with them?...i mean, one more communication, and you sensed you be 'done for'? (aka 'madly in love'?) does anyone know what i mean???
i am in this situation, feel terrible about it, don't want to hurt my friend whom i care about, but i can't live a double life...i have to do the right thing, as i'm in a relationship w/ someone (even if my bf is a total flirt...god i hate his %ss sometimes)..:)
i don't think this person will understand why i can't talk to them. it makes me feel sad. also, i miss them, but...i will be hurting myself if i let myself have feelings for him, yet can't be involved with him.
sh*t...i don't know what to do...i started to think about him like crazy one night and i realized the position that i am in. :( i don't want to hurt anyone...maybe he is cool..who knows. i dunno what to do. in all honesty he knows about this site and i hope he reads this. i hope you understand...i will always care. perhaps we can talk again ITF...
amy
p.s. hope i'm not making a big deal out of nothing :)

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did you ever need to stop talking to a friend alesta 4/14/06
sorry! meant for relationships board....ga head alesta 4/14/06
your unsociable friend » alesta zeugma 4/14/06
i think you mean i'm unsociable :-) » zeugma alesta 4/20/06
i didn't mean that » alesta zeugma 4/26/06

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