Posted by Sixsecrets on April 2, 2006, at 10:57:07
In reply to Need help, at tipping point, posted by waterfall on March 30, 2006, at 15:26:54
I understand how you feel. Sometimes it is such a merry-go-round. I have had the ocassional one-nighter. I am not married tho. I have had a one nighter with a mriied man and it was just all about passion and some fun, Did I feel guilty he was married? Not really, it takes two to do the deed. Did my friends support me? No. They retty much said I was a tramp for doing a amarried man. Let them think what they want. I know I am not a tramp.
As for cutting, I've got the scars as well. I know the enticement of it. When I feel it pulling, I go through the tortures of the damned and occupy myself with something physical (usually cleaning the bathroom, or I take out the trash)...I have an impeccably clean bathroom..but, the temptation lasts so I take an Ativan, read something funny...
You are NOT a bad person, nor do I think you are a tramp, you're just on the merry-go-round like the rest of us.
I'd be very careful not to let your husband know that you were fooling around, the consequences could be very uncomfortable.
Keep us posted.
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