Posted by Meri-Tuuli on March 15, 2006, at 12:23:49
In reply to Re: When do you know it's absolutely, positively over?, posted by crazy teresa on March 14, 2006, at 22:44:58
I dunno, I've been thinking about that myself. For me, everything is okay with the relationship (could be alot better, could be alot worse) but I don't like were we live, I don't have a job and I don't feel as if I'm living my life. I just went to the city I left over the weekend and I was really sad to leave......
Yeah, this is the first time I have lived with a bloke and boy, is he useless at things - I have to sort everything out, like the finances, trash, laundry, tidying up, cooking, shopping etc etc etc..... and its the small things that gets me, like his inability to out dirty laundry in the basket etc etc..........
Oh well.
I hope it goes okay, maybe this is abit of a 'dip' in the relationship..... also I find that when I'm depressed I blame the relationship for making me unhappy rather than the depression.
BTW - are you in the UK?? If so, have you seen a pdoc on the NHS and how long did you wait from a refereal to an appt?? I'm still waiting and I was refereed in November.....
Kind regards
Meri
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