Posted by alexandra_k on February 5, 2006, at 19:43:45
In reply to Re: How many people have you dated at one time? » alexandra_k, posted by Susan47 on February 5, 2006, at 19:07:49
> men are easily hurt when they're not physically accepted
women too susan. i often thing men and women are more alike than is commonly supposed...
> He already said this dumb thing about not sharing with anybody. He doesn't share, he said .. I don't like that. What right does he have to lay claim? Nope, too much for me.
mmm. hard to know... whether he returns the favour or whether he is staking territory hard to know...
i don't know... i think... it depends what you are looking for...
i really think it does.
and i'm a big fan of this reciprocity idea...
so if you are just kicking around having a little fun and you are going to ditch them when the mood passes...
then i think you can indeed do that if you want
but there is a possible downside...that one of the guys you are with is just kicking around having a little fun with you and they are goign to ditch you when the mood passes
i relaly don't mean to be a party killer...
but it can hurt...
but i think that that is what happens...and sometimes... i think all this is just a dance that keeps us from deeper intimacy that we are f*cking terrified of even though that is what we most want more than anything
you and me both
(((((susan)))))
though i might be full of sh*t...
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