Posted by alexandra_k on February 5, 2006, at 19:06:01
In reply to Re: Would you have sex without b-ing in a relationshi? » alexandra_k, posted by sunny10 on January 30, 2006, at 8:18:08
well i just checked this thread...
to see whether i had said 'no'
(which i think rationally is the best bet)
to see whether i was a bit fat hypocrite or not...
but seems i didn't commit myself
lolstill... who cares if i am a hypocrite...
i wish the answer was no.
i do.
i don't know what is wrong with me sometimes... oh yeah... lonliness. i see...no strings... no strings is hard though.
because you don't exactly talk about that beforehand.
typically
and even if you do you can't exactly commit yourself to how you are going to feel in the mornings
and people can't be believed.i met someone.
he is cute
but we don't have a lot in common...
he comes to visit.
sigh.
he is cute...
but other people are starting to think we are a 'cute couple'and we aren't a couple.
sigh.
i hope i don't / haven't / won't be hurting him...
i thin kthat is why the answer is 'no'
(or should be rationally considered)
in my case anyway...
everyone needs to work it out for them
but for me...
hurts
it always seems to lead to one being more attached and the other being less attached
and even if you power on trying to play the game 'rationally considered' of taking it for what it is
the person who is more attached will feel hurt and used and resentful and will lash out
leading to hurt and feeling used and resentment all around
or something
i don' tknow
just despairing in general perhaps...still...
i don't know
he is cute
but... it would never work.
er... what is an acceptable age difference these days?
(working within the law here, working within the law)
poster:alexandra_k
thread:603240
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/relate/20051204/msgs/606683.html