Posted by allisonross on November 3, 2005, at 13:15:22
In reply to made a fool of myself. wah help me!, posted by alesta on November 3, 2005, at 12:54:38
> ok, so i just kind of broke up with my bf...told him needed distance..anyway..that's not the issue...there's this guy here i sorta like (i know i really should take a break from men especially from a here! but oh well.) i know for sure that he likes me..but i made a total fool out of myself today!
Maybe only YOU think that? Guys are not that sophisticated, LOL, LOL
it's so depressing! he asked me to eat lunch with him and i got this bout of shyness (probably b/c i just don't feel like i look good today..i'm usually much more at ease lately) and got all nervous and stiff around him. and then i turned him down for lunch after i originally said i would go and asked him if he would be here tomorrow and if we could eat lunch together then. he probably is like "this chick is weird. whatever." i acted so monotone and awkward man...how do i face him.
Like nothing happened.
i feel like there is no chance for anything now. what do i do?
Behave like nothing happened, cause however you thought you were acting, he may not have thught much about it .
how do i act around him? what do you think he is thinking?
Only HE knows the answer t that question.
i need some solace in some advice...how do i fix the awkwardness?
Repeating myself (LOL), just behave like nothing happened. It is the PAST.
If he mentions anything, just be authentic, and tell him you were feeling a little awkward and nervous...
.guys feel like that ALL of the time around women, LOL, LOl...He will...understand! need some help..fast..thanks!!!!:)
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> amy, who feels sooo crappy right now...hope there's a nice shoulder out there...In other words:
I'ts snot that serious. If he likes you, and vice versa, you will find a way to get together and enjoy one another's company, and not make a big deal of something that wasn't really...a big deal.
Can we say blown out of proportion?! (in a sensitive, tender way from my soft shoulder to yours, sweetie!)
Hugs, Ally (hey, if you want to really freak out---read my story) : www.churchabusepoetrytherapy.com (voted out of a 31 years church membership)
and I was published by a psych. journal: www.psychiatricjournal.com...entitled; The Transcendent Child on Overcoming Verbal and Spiritual Abuse
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