Posted by Declan on November 2, 2005, at 13:38:45
In reply to Cheating lover, posted by Kya on November 1, 2005, at 16:25:06
Now I've read your post properly. You don't even speak to him. There's not much you can do then. I would say to myself that trying to protect him is a reflection of the best of us both (in some way or other, amongst other things etc), my missing him was a good thing, just accept the pain and try to live with it. Don't bother trying to hate him, it'll hurt you more, and it's not worth throwing the baby out with the bathwater. There was something good for you there once (no matter how young, how misguided), wasn't there?
Declan
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