Posted by Damos on October 17, 2005, at 17:41:40
In reply to Should I try to contact my ex?, posted by Angela2 on October 15, 2005, at 22:16:42
Hi Angela,
I tend to think Tamar is right. 2 months seems like an eternity but the space is important and necessary. If your feelings are confused now, getting back in touch will most likely only add to that - trust me on that one. Sometimes it's the space that reveals whether there really was a 'bond' or not. Sometimes you have to sit with the discomfort to see the truth revealed. And I know sitting with discomfort can be really hard and feel really lonely and stuff. But you've got us to talk to and work stuff through with.
Warmest wishes,
Damos
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