Posted by Mal on August 2, 2005, at 20:35:18
In reply to Re: G-spot- I read an old postSusan47 » Mal, posted by Susan47 on August 2, 2005, at 19:58:55
> Well I believe I am a woman who (this is scary for men to hear, too, but maybe if I just told them ahead of time, right off the bat before anything ever happened, we would be able to work on it, work up to it, whatever.. or it might just scare the hell out of the guy so much he couldn't get it up .. what the hell though, once he saw me come he'd get it up all right ...) anyway I don't believe I ever had one O with any man ever. Only time I ever can is when I'm pleasing myself .. oh dear, what an old-fashioned phrase ...
LOL, that is OK. I have a hard time with the phrase "I masturbated" too. ANd I was beginning to think something was wrong with me, till I met the husband. In fact, I still have limitations. I can ONLY have an orgasm (I also have trouble with the phrase, "I come"-silly hang-ups) when I am on my back. Seems like I can only relax that way. We have tried other positions, and I can get close, but can't fall over the edge.
>Okay but since I found the G-spot there may be hope in my future .. and I was so EMBARRASSED by myself last year when I peed a little with an O, okay, I was alone of course, but still ... until I found out women do that sometimes when the G-spot's stimulated .. then it wasn't embarrassing anymore, it was, like, okay, I guess that was Real then, I guess I'm a woman like other women, maybe I'm normal after all .. it was an Accomplishment, from Ashamed to Accomplished in a single thought..
I guess that was cool- ashamed to accomplished! I am impressed you can do this for yourself. I haven't tried, but I just don'w think I could without a device of some sort. ANd I am just not real fond of devices...
>burt yeah, it was like getting the keys to the car for the first time. I'll bet your hubby felt the same way when that happened, and did you?
OMG, I thought, "What in the world was THAT?!" Once or twice in a session is about all I can do with the spot. It is fabulous, though!
>It's great .. I want to have your experience too .. after the first time did it happen more often? Have you had sex since that time?
Yes, we have had a lot of sex since then. Well, not a lot by some people's standards. The frequency hasn't really picked up, but I must say the quality is improving all the time!! We don't get after the spot EVERY time (sometimes we have quickies, because we have a toddler in the house, but I always get off one way or another.)
>Why then? Were you more relaxed?
I don't know why then. Maybe the husband read about it and tried it and got it right. Can't say I was any more relaxed than usual.
>Wow. I've been there.. crying after sex. It's nice when it's for a good reason, just kidding. Sometimes it seems like such a miracle, though, doesn't it?THe whole thing seems like a miracle to me. How emotions are SO involved with the physical act. How intense our drives are for sex, and how it HAS to be that way for the species to survive. I am just so glad that the creator gave us a "reward" like the orgasm for our trouble! ANd that is not even going into the real miracle of reproduction!
>And when someone else takes the time to love you that much, to want to please you and take the time, that probably is a big help, too. Mm, you're a lucky woman.
God, don't I know it. I am very thankful for it, too.
Have a great night!
MAL
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