Posted by Tamar on July 31, 2005, at 18:07:16
In reply to Re: Anorgasmia is a bit better now..., posted by Maximus on July 28, 2005, at 15:45:30
I'm glad to hear things are improving.
I've gone through periods of anorgasmia, but I wasn't sure if I could add much to this thread, as I'm not on meds and don't have a penis (I've got other cool stuff though...)
I know that people often advise women with anorgasmia to try a vibrator. Have you thought of that? Obviously, you'd be using it in a slightly different place... I'm wondering if a bit of prostate action would help.
You probably know this, but you have to be careful with vibrators if you're using them in your *ss. They can get... ahem... assimilated. So don’t let go of the end! You can buy vibrating butt plugs, but I haven’t seen any with variable speeds, and I would think a low speed might be more useful (I don’t know why I think that; it’s just a hunch). However, I’m not an expert, and maybe there are all kinds of butt plugs that I know nothing about. Do you have any gay friends you can ask?
Like others here, I’d agree that some quality naked time with your partner is essential, even if it can be a bit frustrating for you. I think it’s important to keep the intimacy alive while you work on the other issues. If you can find some pleasure by keeping her satisfied, then you’ll probably manage the frustration better.
Wishing you many orgasms…
Tamar
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