Posted by Tamar on July 3, 2005, at 7:52:20 [reposted on July 3, 2005, at 11:00:42 | original URL]
In reply to How is it to be with different people??, posted by pinkeye on July 2, 2005, at 23:26:07
> I always had a curiosity to know what it would be like to be with someone else.. I have been only with my husband.
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> I don't think I am interested in an affair, just curiosity..
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> How do people feel when they sleep with more than one person?? Is it a new experience, or is it the same??Hi pinkeye
I’ve been with quite a few partners. In my experience, some things were different and some things were very similar.
The stuff that was similar was my own response to being touched. Most of the time certain activities work well for me and other activities are less successful!
The things that were different were about the other person. Different men seem to have different ways of doing things. Some men are quite laid back in their approach to sex; other men seem to convey a sense of the urgency of their desire. I don’t think any style is better or worse, but you might prefer one way to another. Some men particularly like to do certain things; other men like to do other things. And of course there are differences in what different men like you to do for them.
Of course, sometimes the reality just doesn’t live up to the fantasy, which can be rather disappointing. Or sometimes the sex can be fantastic but it turns out you have nothing in common outside the bedroom.
So yes, I think it’s different with every man. And I get curious about different people too. And I think it’s possible to be very satisfied in a relationship and still be curious about other men. But if women aren’t satisfied in a relationship, that curiosity might be very compelling!
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