Posted by woolav on June 24, 2005, at 9:05:11 [reposted on June 26, 2005, at 1:25:09 | original URL]
In reply to pbc » Jazzed, posted by justyourlaugh on June 23, 2005, at 23:43:07
I understood what you meant by that...I have told him that I was wrong and sorry, I think at first i was blaming it all on my illness and not taking accountibility for it. But i think he knows that i feel really bad about it and have asked him what i can do to earn his trust again. It just hurts when he brings it up all the time. Especially when he drinks. He did go to the pdoc with me and heard from the doc that we should go to councilling, but still hasnt thought seriouslly about it. Maybe I should tell him that if we dont go, we will never get past this..
Also, his son lives in VA, we are in SC and he has been saying how if we get divorced he will move to VA. I feel like now I am holding him back from being with his son. I cant move bc my job is here and my daughter is in school here. But, when we first got together, he said he would never leave here and that he hated VA. I feel like he is saying I am not important to him anymore. I feel like if that is how he felt, then he should have decided to be with his son in the first place and not marry someone who has a life here.... I dont know.
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