Posted by crazyteresa on June 22, 2005, at 2:21:01
In reply to Re: Anyone know any good relationship books? » Dinah, posted by ron1953 on June 2, 2005, at 13:19:41
Changes That Heal by Henry Cloud absolutely changed my life! In my opinion, each person on earth should have to read this book and pass a test on it to be allowed into society! ;~}
It helps you stand up for yourself, say no, stay within your boundries and let others' choices belong to them (even if they're not what you like), and understand why this is all so vital in any healthy relationship. He teaches that it is NOT my job to keep every one happy, nor is this possible. How freeing is that?
There is a book and a workbook. You don't need the workbook unless you're doing a group study. It is writen in very understandable language with excellent examples from his practice.
I have done 2 group studies on this book (taught the 2nd); I recommend it every chance I get, and am still waiting on the chance to jam it down my mother-in-law's throat....
I can't say enough about how it has changed the way I live my life.
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