Posted by partlycloudy on April 22, 2005, at 8:08:20
In reply to Not sure what to do, posted by sdjeff on April 21, 2005, at 20:01:34
Jeff, how wonderful that you have found someone! And you both have the experiences of being "one of us" so you have a profound understanding of what depression can do with your ability to process thought rationally. She says she wants to be with you - just take that statement as fact. She is happy with Jeff as Jeff is.
As far as being supportive, perhaps you can show your support with non-contact things, like making a cup of tea, or getting a blanket for her to curl with, or having a pile of mindless magazines for her to go through when she feels like it. That way you can show that you care without making yourself uncomfortable. And I'm sure she'll appreciate any supportive gesture that you're able to make.
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