Posted by Susan47 on April 5, 2005, at 0:26:35
In reply to Re: Love » Susan47, posted by Miss Honeychurch on April 4, 2005, at 13:25:12
Absolutely not infatuation, sorry.
I know it's tempting to read your own interpretations into what others say. M-hm. So I understand your query. Because love like I feel, can definitely be seen from the outside as infatuation. But the feeling is not infatuation. Because I've been that in the past as well. But no, love comes from inside me. The other person doesn't create that because of who they are. They just are. And I choose certain people to love because of who they are. I don't have to know them intimately in order to love anybody. It's possible, it's real and it's really beautiful. Painful at times, you know, when I thought I needed to have him too. And of course that would've been lovely, absolutely wonderful, in fact, I know that. For me, anyway. But I don't need it. I can live without him. I just love him, that's all.
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