Posted by holymama on January 29, 2005, at 23:36:16
In reply to Re: How do you cure Marriage Boredom?, posted by caraher on January 8, 2005, at 12:47:21
Hi there, I've been married for 10 years, three young kids, so I've definitely experienced marriage boredom. One small thing I can suggest to improve things is this: it's really simple. Try it alone, or suggest it to your spouse that you both try it. Do a small, kind thing for eachother every day. Not flowers, a foot rub, anything like that. Maybe just a little note. Or a smile. A hug. A special treat from the grocery store. Something thoughtful. It's catchy -- once you start doing this, the other person does it back, and it keeps going. It really improves things. I swear it works, and it just starts with a little tiny bit of kindness.
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