Posted by tulip04 on January 23, 2005, at 10:08:46
In reply to sadness and conflict, posted by QuietHeart on January 17, 2005, at 12:20:12
I can completely relate to your feelings. I'm 27 and have been single for over a year now. Before that I was in a relationship with the man I thought was "the one".. HA! He ended up cheating on me and that was the end of it. Anyway, took a long time to get over the hurt but now I feel good. I don't want to date, I just don't want to deal with it. I too feel very comfortable being alone, my friends are great and the drama of a boyfriend is just uninteresting to me. I also feel like I'm abnormal in this sense. When I was in a relationship and all my friends were single, they also always seemed to want to be with someone and out there looking... I mean I go out, meet guys, they call and I just don't even want to call back... I guess I just feel that when that person I'm suppose to be with does call, I'll be excited to talk to them.. My friends tell me I need to just try to get to know these guys... I'm just not interested. Oh well, for now, I'm just living in the moment and enjoying my new found freedom. There is something to be said for not having anyone to answer to but yourself. And finding happiness in yourself is the best feeling in the world.
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