Posted by borderliner on January 9, 2005, at 0:21:43
In reply to Re: Going to Make a Decision, posted by eugenia on December 26, 2004, at 8:43:27
I think that would be incredibly stupid. My mother did the same. But five kids including one cannabis user, one whos doing the same she did, one who turned out gay and 2 lil brats.... she quite predictably drove herself to a collapse at work, and has been in and out of hospital since. Been on every medication under the planet. She put too much energy into everyone else and forgot about number 1. Which eventually turned her into a mother that every child has left at 16 years old.
Be selfish and enjoy yourself while u can. After many years of pain my mother decided to live for herself but still look after 2 kids. She met a great man on the internet, met him a few times and maintained the relationship over the phone for a bout a year before deciding to move there with the kids(anmerica) and get married. They married and he died 4 weeks later on christmas eve.
Depressing story... look at it however u want.borderliner
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