Posted by lostforwards on December 12, 2004, at 23:54:46
In reply to just a little vent / feeling sorry for myself, posted by Emily Elizabeth on December 12, 2004, at 21:27:12
I think wanting to have a family is a great idea. I'm in my early 20s and I wanted to settle down with the last girl I was with. A nice long term fulfilling relationship would be nice. Eventually settling down would be sweet. Just someone to love and spend time with. Do all the fun stuff you can do with SO and can't do with someone who's just a friend. They know your past and they know who you are. It'd be great. Of course I've got this mental illness that and I think I have a gang after me who claim to be after me on my ex-gf's behalf. I don't think she'd approve of it - not if she knew everything. Her sister might. I don't know her sister though. I thought she was genuine. She was. This gang isn't. I'm still a little in dboubt.
Trust is very important. You have to be careful. Getting over the depression is probably a good place to start. Then just network and go find your soulmate. Follow what your heart desires man. The modern obsession with independance won't necessarily get you anywhere. I'm not saying it's useless either. Just follow your nose/heart/soul, and take care of yourself.
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