Posted by libbyann on November 22, 2004, at 18:12:30
In reply to Re: Abusive boyfriend..., posted by sunny10 on November 22, 2004, at 18:08:05
Thanks for your input. My significant other should win awards for patience... He's really been great while I try to figure all this out. I just wonder if I'm pushing away from him because of the past or if I'm pushing away because I want to be out of this relationship. I have no idea!! It sucks because I feel like I'm making him hang in there with a big question mark over our future.
Bad Boyfriend used to do things and now, with Good Boyfriend, I feel like I interpret everything he does as if it were Bad Boyfriend. I have to continually remind myself that I am with and responding to Good Boyfriend and not the other. It's difficult!
The Good Boyfriend and I did break up once and were totally miserable apart... Isn't it amazing - and sickening - how one horrible person can jack you up for so long after they've disappeared? Thanks again for your input. Write more if you want!
libbyann
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