Posted by sunny10 on November 9, 2004, at 11:54:18
In reply to Re: Sharks, Sunny, posted by Susan47 on November 8, 2004, at 16:51:16
We can all SEE them- afterwards...I have a way of getting off topic sometimes...
The point I was attempting to make was that if you focus your therapy on what makes you vulnerable, your "work" will be finished sooner- and you'll feel better about YOU.
I found that it was a wasted effort to "be on the lookout" for them. That kind of "work" is forever!
I chose to go to therapy to become undesirable to them! If you're no longer vulnerable, they won't want you- you'll be too much work for THEM!
Just my opinion- although my T agrees wholeheartedly.
-sunny10
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