Posted by Crazy_Charlie on November 2, 2004, at 4:06:55
In reply to Re: Husbands!!!, posted by bethesdabob on November 1, 2004, at 8:08:36
"My wife used to do many things that really irritated me, likewise I got under her skin a lot and drove her nuts, somehow though we logged more than twenty years together, wife died suddenly last December from a seizure disorder, she was there one moment and gone the next, I would gladly suffer through all her irritations just to spend another day with her and to thank her for putting up with me for that long."
I almost get jalous...no, not almost. Why, oh why, can't I think like that? I have had many great great boyfriends, but I always fall out at some point, not managing to feel anything but irritation over the other person. Not a HUGE problem before, but now it is...
I have this wonderful daughter with a wonderful man, that treats me good... but still the irritations over all those small things makes me want to move out, live on my own. I can't, my daughter loives him, he loves her. I can't take her away from him, and I can't leave her.
And it's really stupid. He is kind, intelligent, funny and caring... so on earth doesn't that mean anything? Am I just spoiled? Is it so that I should feel what it is to have someone who is absolutely awful and treating me as shit so I can learn to value these positive sides?
It's all those very very small things, like how he always always tends to wait with doing things as long as possible... drives me completely nuts. Things like that....
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poster:Crazy_Charlie
thread:409804
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