Posted by just plain jane on October 24, 2004, at 10:21:42
In reply to Okay, I Called Him Back, posted by AdaGrace on October 22, 2004, at 16:30:04
AdaGrace, dear, sweet, hurting in so many ways AdaGrace,
It feels to me like your head is telling you to turn away from him.
It feels to me like you know he is bad news, but...
It feels to me like you are in a miserable situation similar to those some of us have found ourselves in.
It feels to me that he is a sadist and is working on training you to be his masochist.
It feels to me like this is the WORST time, with your added vulnerability brought on by your burns and the unhappy outlook for their scars, the WORST time to let this man near you.
It feels to me like there will never be a better time to let him near you, either, so
It feels like it's time to rip the door to him off its hinges and replace it with an impermeable wall.
Just my feelings, though.
hold our hands and look into our eyes here, we, who care very much and hope for the best outcome for YOU...
you have the best decision for you ready, you know what it is. No matter what you have said in the past, you owe this man nothing, which, for all I can see, is wayyy more than he has ever given you.
Your choice is your prerogative.
either way, still here.
just plain jane
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