Posted by Miss Honeychurch on October 22, 2004, at 9:09:53
In reply to He Called and Left a Message - Now What?, posted by AdaGrace on October 22, 2004, at 8:42:38
Since you are asking for opinions, I say ignore the messages.
I know I know NOTHING about your relationship, but viewing it from your varied posts, I believe this guy is bad, bad news. He does not have your best interests at heart. He leads you on, thanks you for not calling and then calls YOU??? What the *&%^ is that about? He seems like he likes to play games.
Again, I obviously have no knowledge of the true workings of your relationship, but from a purely superficial level, it doesn't look good.
What would you advse your daughter if she were in this situation?
I know you are miserable in your marriage, but don't use this guy and past relationship as an excuse to get out of it. That needs to happen of your own volition and not because of another person.
Just my two cents. I view Babblers as part of my family so please know I care about you and want to see you not hurt so much. While perhaps he can provide euphoria and relief in the short term, it seems as if in the long run more misery may follow.
What do you feel you should do?
poster:Miss Honeychurch
thread:405800
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