Posted by baseball55 on July 8, 2013, at 20:01:56
In reply to Re: Trying to keep a promise.... » Twinleaf, posted by Dinah on July 8, 2013, at 13:02:51
My p-doc has no children. When he told me this, I was shocked -- he would have been such a great father -- but he said, it just never happened and he regrets never having had children, though he helped raise an autistic nephew. But on some level, some really selfish level, I was glad he didn't have children. I didn't worry about him moving away to be with his children. I could fantasize taking care of him without his children to disrupt my fantasies. God, transference was so hard. I don't know how I survived it. I don't know how he survived it.
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