Posted by Dinah on May 31, 2012, at 22:20:48
In reply to Re: Want vs. Need » Twinleaf, posted by annierose on May 31, 2012, at 13:07:49
Hmmm... Maybe I'm just old, but I always figured flirting was the opposite of "too intense, too soon". It was light and fun, and not intended to be more than to indicate an openness to thinking of someone in that way. Flirting was a safe thing.
I wonder if your therapist isn't quite as comfortable with digital communication? It's that odd dynamic where more intimacy is possible because less intimacy is possible.
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