Posted by Twinleaf on March 15, 2012, at 7:08:13
In reply to I'm Stuck!!, posted by Daisym on March 13, 2012, at 20:47:46
Rather than ask yourself what you want from him, a better question might be to ask yourself how you would like to be treated by him right now. Maybe you are in an area of pre-verbal fears and longings. Do you think it would help if you were just together, without speaking much, and without any probing and questioning? Just allowing the being together to be the most important thing happening? (This has helped me a lot when dealing with very early issues)
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