Posted by Twin leaf on December 5, 2011, at 8:59:23
In reply to Re: Welcome Back Twinleaf, posted by annierose on December 5, 2011, at 6:54:47
That can be so hard (marriage difficulties). It's wonderful that you have such a close attachment to your T now; that sounds like an "earned secure attachment" which you will always have from now on.
Things are good on my therapy front too. I still struggle with feelings of aloneness even when he is right there and keeping me fully in mind - but less often and less painfully. Outside of therapy, I notice quite a bit more confidence and self-liking. I guess I'd say I'm progressing towards a secure attachment but haven't actually gotten there yet. He is great - smart, loving, playful, unchanging.
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