Posted by sigismund on August 26, 2011, at 12:28:26
In reply to Re: Down in a hole, posted by Lamdage on August 26, 2011, at 10:29:14
It must have been the abuse.
I meant let go of the past. Please do not assume I can do this.
My son doesn't need me, these days (which is fine). He comes home and we have a perfectly nice time watching Game of Thrones or something else. Our daughter still needs us, psychologically. The aim of parenting is perhaps to help the kid need you no longer? Like therapy?
It would be dreadful to be caught in a situation of endless disapproval. Having said that, I kind of disapprove of the world. Somehow my kids escaped.
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