Posted by Dinah on April 1, 2011, at 8:34:57
In reply to Re: Last session at current office » Dinah, posted by annierose on April 1, 2011, at 6:51:56
I like that ending too. :)
I hope the things you like best about this office are things she adds to the next as well.
I did talk to him yesterday. It's a funny coincidence, but he'll be gone for a couple of weeks with orthoscopic surgery. I didn't ask for any reassurances, but he will contact me after he's up and around again. He really hasn't changed his position, I think, but he's making it less hurtful and that helps me detach. And I'm *starting* to almost think that he didn't mean to be so hurtful. That he was just uneasy and unsure of what to say or do.
I'm ok enough, except when I hear from him, or sit and relax. Then I get anxious and a bit teary. However, not at all frantic like I used to be.
I can't wait to hear about your therapist's new office. Is the building much different? My therapist went from a very old building with poured glass windows that gave a gentle watery cast to the light coming in and the world looking out, to a modern skyrise with all sharp angles. And changed his decor to match (apart from his chairs and sofa), with a very angular art deco. It was a jarring change, particularly since my therapist, like his old office, is anything but angular. On the other hand, I do like the waiting room better now. It's more impersonal.
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