Posted by emmanuel98 on February 3, 2011, at 19:56:00
In reply to Re: Here it is! » annierose, posted by Dinah on February 3, 2011, at 7:39:00
For me, to an extraordinary degree, I prefer the uncomplicated relationship of young child having trust in and security from the invulnerable parent, even when that involves pain.
I don't think even that relationship is so uncomplicated and secure. My daughter, who I felt I gave endless love and security, now sees now mentions flaws in the relationship, weaknesses in me she was aware of from a very young age. We don't remain innocent very long. Not nearly as long as we think we do.
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