Posted by emmanuel98 on January 17, 2011, at 22:13:36
In reply to Re: Unknow what?........ » Twinleaf, posted by Solstice on January 16, 2011, at 21:14:30
I like what you said about your T never being defensive. I feel like I have the best T in the world. He always takes responsibility for anything he says that upsets or hurts me. If he is annoyed or angry or hurtful in any way, he immediately apologizes. It has taught me a lot about how to not be defensive myself and to take responsibility for my role in relationships. I used to be very defensive and unable to handle conflict in a relationship. I'm not like this anymore and believe the example of my T is responsible for this.
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