Posted by mystickangaroo on January 1, 2011, at 20:35:25
In reply to can't stand it, posted by Annabelle Smith on January 1, 2011, at 18:49:24
Annabelle
all you have to manage is one day at a time and you are doing that.
Your T is pointing out boundaries. I hear 2 different perspectives on dependent. That you see your self merging with his. And he is saying no you are still you...
Kierkergaard once said to be a human being we need to be an individual and a member of a group at the same time. My sense of You is that you are being torn apart by this tension. And yes it is PAINFUL.
Finding the common language of therapy is hard work. I hate it myself. But it is finding that common language that we get to tell our own story... to name the unanameable. Or even be able to sit with mystery and not be overwhelmed by it.
Keep posting
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