Posted by Lil'Deb on September 11, 2010, at 14:46:14
In reply to I am so sad in my marriage what to do, posted by DAAIM on September 11, 2010, at 2:57:26
Wow. I am so sorry that things are rough for you. It sounds to me that you suffering from depression - you don't say whether you're taking medication or not, and maybe you should look into this. It is nothing to be ashamed of, and antidepressants have helped many people cope with the stress of life. It also sounds like you feel a lot of resentment towards your husband, and this is a difficult thing to live with. It feels like he doesn't care, but maybe he just doesn't know how. A lot of time, men don't seem to get it (no offense guys). They're just wired differently then we are. Have you thought of marriage counseling? Maybe he is having issues that he doesn't want to talk about that are affecting the way he acts. Discussing things with someone may help both of you see where the other is coming from. Meanwhile, you have to take care of yourself first! This is soooo important! Good luck to you, and I really hope things get better.
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