Posted by sassyfrancesca on July 12, 2010, at 8:55:25
In reply to Re: I had one of the worst days I've had in a while..., posted by mystickangaroo on July 12, 2010, at 3:01:08
I lived with a verbally abusive mother (also physical); joined the army right out of high school, and then "married" her (the original abuser, mother) and tried to fix the past (all unconsciously of course......31 years of abusive "marriage" then divorce.
The book that saved my sanity and life: The Verbally Abusive Relationship by Patricia Evans...abusers are excruciatingly INsecure and will do and say anything to make YOU as miserable as they are. They are like vampires who need a fix; they need their supply; when they don't get it (you reacting) they go at it with a vengeance.
They are miserable and want you to be as miserable as they are.
Hugs, Sassy
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