Posted by deerock on April 22, 2010, at 20:13:07
In reply to Re: caught up over issue of diagnosis » deerock, posted by fleeting flutterby on April 22, 2010, at 19:27:00
<<<----flutterby: If you hold what the other docs have said to you as truth-- then why not go back to one of them?.... I'm not trying to be flip-- just was wondering why one would stay with a therapist that they felt was not as right as therapists they had in the past.....>>>
i've moved, therapists have retired, others i have outgrown.<<<----flutterby: or it says something about how YOU view her and that also could not be helpful.>>>
i guess its a chicken or the egg thing. i got along with her just fine until i realized she thought i was borderline. i still get along with her quite well actually im just not sure i see a need to label and categorize behaviors and feelings. a behavior is a behavior and a feeling is a feeling. if someone is afraid of abandonment and acts out over that fear, its ok to leave it at that. it doesnt need to be chalked up to a personality disorder.i understand youre not trying to be flip flutterby. but you sure do come across that way.
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