Posted by 64bowtie on February 9, 2010, at 18:46:40
I'm still in love with your brains.......
I continue to be impressed with what makes y'alls tick, girl...........
(from a previous post you made)
>>> I suppose what comes to mind is what we were taught as parents. Self esteem comes from a sense of self efficacy. I saw a bit of that myself when I built a bookshelf, or soldered for the first time. I figured if I could solder, I could do anything.>>> Is there something you are good at? Or something you've always wanted to try? Better yet, is it something you can do with a group? It is so much easier to be with others when you have an exterior focus of attention.
<<< You tweaked a hot point for me by just mentioning soldering (sorry, no pun intended)... You instantly got my attention...
<<< Its truly about "self" and "self-image"... Even though "self" isn't left to whatever we do, but rather a mix of who we are and what we do, skills like soldering, etc. are/can-be building blocks of "self"...
<<< Yep, you hit the nail on the head, again, my dear (((Dinah))).........
Love (at this safe distance), Rod
poster:64bowtie
thread:936507
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