Posted by lingonberry on December 15, 2009, at 14:03:57
In reply to Re: emotional catharsesis and uncomfortable result, posted by southernsky on December 14, 2009, at 14:50:27
> Ligonberry,
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> Wow-I went back and read some of your other posts too--every post you write sounds like it's coming from an expert!Hi Southernsky!
Thank you so very much! I have already seen that you too have a lot of insights; there has been a lot of correspondence today. Im very pleased if my own experiences can be of any help. I am very dedicated to issues such psychology and spirituality and thats also what Im doing for living. But Im still a work in progress.
> "I dont think you have to be afraid of developing some kind of compulsive behaviour because of this, but it surely can be helpful to keep an eye on it."
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> Thanks for your reassurance. My fear is not necessarily the sexual defense/compusion/ incident, but the fear my sexuality would somehow become ruined because of this....like you said-developing the behavior.. I know it might sound out there to have this fear, but my sexuality was always something I felt very comfortable with....and I dont' want it to change. So this could be temporary to mask emotional pain, I see.that's ok, but I'm hoping this does not reoccur....I can't wait to talk to T for him to comfort me about this.He will probably have all the answers..I totally understand your anxiety, but I dont think you need to be scared, that your sexuality would somehow become ruined.
> What does this mean, if you don't mind if I ask:
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> "Right, now, Im in the end of the infant/toddler phase and all thoughts about sex are gone with the wind. Im asocial, asexuala everything. Feels like my whole life is on hold and all there is is my basic needs. So you will get over it..."It does mean that I have re-experienced all my suppressed feelings from my early childhood. And I actually acted like a child during this period, especially towards my T. I had no needs except love and security. One can say that I have a second childhood, but this time with a loving, understanding and caring T that consoled me. It was a pretty interesting experience.
> Are there certain stages in therapy that bring on sexual feelings?I actually think it can happen in all stages. I understand if youre afraid of loosing control. If so, maybe you can buy something that brings on less guilt something, hm, more technical so to speak. LOL
> Thanks so much for sharing with me and you are very brave too! :-) (((Ligonberry)))Youre welcome. Nice talking to you! And thanks for your interest.
(((Southernsky)))
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