Posted by deerock on December 11, 2009, at 9:18:09
hi there, i am getting some insight into my rage towards my T. she is female and I am male and im realizing, that i want her in a sexual way. and since i cant have her, this rage ensues.
so im confused in part because i feel like she had been flirting with me, i think unintentionally during our sessions or perhaps i was interpreting flirting when it was not flirting. she appeared to be acting seductively at times. sometimes she has admitted it.
so im wondering...because i think she would continue to work with me...if the fact that we got to this place where i was enraged means that she mishandled it and i should find another therapist or if the fact that i realized this was a major part of the issue and it means i should work this out with her.
either way, im looking for a consult from another therapist.
i realized this because as i was calling around for other therapists, when i called a woman therapist and she sounded sexy...similar feelings of lust/rage arose. im just not sure if i would have ended up enraged if she handled it properly or if this means i better find a male therapist.
thanks for listening/reading.
poster:deerock
thread:928836
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