Posted by emmanuel98 on December 4, 2009, at 18:32:27
In reply to Re: A FIRST for my T after FIFTY-Seven Years! » sassyfrancesca, posted by BayLeaf on December 4, 2009, at 17:54:29
My T has accepted gift from me -- all home made. Breads at christmas, a decoupage tissue box for his office, a memoir I'm writing, partly about him. But he has strong boundaries and I think these are important. Painful, but useful. We are not friends or lovers, do not have some special relationship. I find I am grateful for his boundaries. He has remained, steadfastly, my T. Not my father or lover or friend. I don't really see what use therapy is if your T becomes your lover or fantasy lover. What's therapuetic about that?
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