Posted by Dinah on September 23, 2009, at 12:10:45
In reply to Re: In defense of googling » Dinah, posted by annierose on September 23, 2009, at 11:44:17
Yes, I know. I'm also beating myself up for not just being grateful for what I have, but wanting more. :)
It was his professional persona, and he was more or less like he was in session. He made sure to check on that, and that there was nothing in what I found that upset me in any way.
I'm pretty sure I wouldn't want to find anything personal about him. His private life is welcome to remain his own.
But, wistfulness over what I missed aside, I'm squealing in delight. I have the relaxation tape he made for me, but he sounds a bit uncomfortable in that. He sounds far more comfortable in this, and the sound quality is much better than in his voicemails.
I asked him if he minded that I save his voice messages to me, and he said no he didn't, and wanted to know if I had any feelings about it. I told him I used to be rather embarrassed, but now I'm not really. It is exactly as you say, a transitional object, and it does no harm to either of us.
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