Posted by Nadezda on August 20, 2009, at 11:57:20
In reply to Re: Theraputic Boundaries, posted by duds on August 20, 2009, at 3:50:10
I'm not sure, duds, why you feel uncomfortable. but that suggests to me somehow that something inappropriate has happened; or that at least something that kicks up some very uncomfortable and wrong-feeling emotions in you.
I would be very very concerned about the situation, if I were you. It sounds as though, even if nothing inappropriate "happens"-- in the most concrete sense-- this was at best a misjudgment of the situation by your T, and, at worst, some sort of unconscious seduction by him/her.
I'm really pretty concerned myself about your wellbeing. I know, when you can't point to anything concrete it seems as if everything must be okay-- but this is far from the truth. Please don't minimize whatever feelings you have, or let yourself get drawn into a situation that could be really unhelpful.
Nadezda
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