Posted by Moonshadow on July 27, 2009, at 17:41:59
In reply to Re: I hate my new therapist., posted by friesandcoke on July 27, 2009, at 17:10:07
> Boy can I relate to that feeling of thinking the T doesn't like you. I lost my T of 5 years and am really having a very hard time of it. I have a second appointment with a psychologist who was very distant, cold and didn't say hardly anything while I was pouring out all the reasons I needed therapy. It made me feel embarrased and like she didn't give a darn. She doesn't have to want to take me in and make me family! but you do want a feeling that the T you are seeing has a caring personality. A cold personality is offsetting. She reminded me of Freud or something. The way her body was postured intaking notes, I was doing all the talking and it seemed all one
sided. "I feel your pain". ------That sounds so much like this pdoc I'm seeing! She's so analytical. I want it to work with her but I'm just not liking the Freud-ishness of it, or the silence. Doesn't seem natural. I want warmth. I want my old t!!!
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